Bisexual Husband | Signs Of Bisexuality | Step 1: How To Tell If A Man Is Bisexual

Step 1: How To Tell If A Man Is Bisexual



If you’re worried that your husband is bisexual, the first thing you need to do is to see if he’s showing an interest in men sexually, or acting like he has gay tendencies.  At this point, you’re not trying to figure out if he’s cheating or not, just if sex with men is something that’s on his mind.

Here are some signs you should look for:

1. He watches homosexual or bisexual pornography.  This is a definite sign that he is bisexual, and even if it is the only sign, it’s something you need to address as a couple.

2. He has suspicious computer activity.  If you can’t find any porn on his computer, but he does spend a lot of time online and clears his browser history, you know that something is up, you just need to figure out exactly what it is.

3. He displays extreme homophobic behavior.  If he gets almost militantly angry when he is confronted by gay issues or someone who is gay, this can be a sign that he is really gay or bisexual.  Even though this seems to be counter-intuitive, it can either be a reaction due to the fact that he is being confronted by a part of himself that he is uncomfortable with, or a part of himself that he doesn’t want other people to know about.

4. He pays a lot of attention to his looks, and uses beauty products, especially those intended for women.  This alone is not a definite indication that he is bisexual, but combined with other signs it can be an indicator that he is.

5. He reads gay or bisexual literature.

6. He has a strong interest in anal sex, and other not so typical sexual activities.

7. He seems to enjoy sex, but at the same time is restless, bored, or seems to be not completely satisfied.

8. He doesn’t seem to be really turned on by you, and he does seem to get turned on when he is around other attractive men.

9. He comments on other men’s appearances, and you catch him checking them out.

10. He has friends who are openly gay or bisexual.  Again, this is not a definite sign that himself is bisexual, but combined with other signs, or if he seems to have a lot of gay or bisexual friends, it can be a strong indicator that he is.

Any combination of these signs is a strong indication that your husband is indeed bisexual, meaning that he has a strong interest in and desire for sex with men as well with women.  This does not necessarily mean that he has been having an affair with another man.

If his bisexual activities and interest have not reached the point of infidelity, you still need to deal with the emotional effects on your marriage and relationship, and work together to come to a solution that will leave you both in a satisfying relationship.

But for now, the next step is to find out if he has been cheating.